Sunday, January 14, 2018


Depression is not a word I use lightly, last year was a very hard year for me, a lost a very dear friend to breast cancer.  My sister was diagnose with emphysema after many years of smoking.  And then there was me, having some health problems myself and not coping with it as I should have.  And it sent my to a very dark place, and I was diagnose with depression.

I have found depression is not something you can easy get over it does take time and help from the right people.  But if you work hard enough to overcome it, it will happen.  I'm not saying it will be a piece of cake, there will be a lot and I mean a lot of very hard days.  But you do learn how to cope with them.

I've learnt to take a step back and deal with things one at a time, that's just the way I've coped with my depression.

I took time out to remember the good times I had with my friend who die of breast cancer,  she had told me once that she had a wonderful full life.  And had no regrets.  It doesn't mean that I don't miss her everyday, it just means I'm dealing with the fact she isn't here anymore.

My dear sister is having her weekly treatment and is having good and bad days, she has a wonderful husband who is supporting her all the way.  And make sure I see her as much as I can, or text/phone her as well.  And that makes both of us very happy.

I could give you a list of every health problem I have, but I will spare you the details.  What I will say it that I'm taking each day as it comes  Good, bad and the really awful days that we all have sometimes.

I took a step back from Blogging, Facebook, Twitter and friends and just focussed on me for a while, and that was something I had to do for me.  I'm back on everything and feeling very happy.  Its good to be back.:-)

Depression is not a bad word,  to me it needs I need a bit of help getting through life at the moment and that's ok.  For those of you suffering from depression not be afraid to get help, you cannot go through this alone believe me I know.  Let me leave you with this quote........

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Take care everyone, until next time.;-)xo

Thursday, January 11, 2018

New bargains and two exciting new stores!!!!!

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Hi Everyone,

I got some fantastic new bargains and two new exciting online stores.  So lets get into it:-)

Virgo BodyShapers is having a sale on at the moment and you don't want to miss out one the bargains.  Here is the link you will need SUPPLEX Leggings   We all need a little help sometimes, am I right ladies.

Cupshe is having a sale on Bikinis, woohoo and the prices are to die for, check out this link Tank Bikini! don't forget the Free Shipping that's so important.

Ok the first exciting new online store is SOJI ENERGY and if you love natural crystals like I do then do yourself a favour and check it out.  Here is the link SOJI Gem Elixir Water Bottles  You wont be disappointed.:-)

IVRose is having a huge sale at the moment from tops to sweatsuits to beautiful dress they have it all, here is the link you will need little black dress ,up to 80% off   don't for get about the Free Shipping.

Now the second exciting new online store is INDIRA and the sell sports bras, tops, outerwear, bottoms and bags.  Here are the links you will need. love a sexy strappy sports bra - then click here;-) and Tired of boring gym wear? Then click here;-)

Happy shopping everyone, take care until next time:-)

Wednesday, January 10, 2018

How to make your blog successful!!!!!!!

When I first discovered the blogging world I knew I wanted to be part of it.  I wanted to have a fulltime blog make lots of money and be happy.   Well, reality hit pretty quick and I started to realize that quitting my full-time job was going to have to wait.  And that you cant just write about anything, you have to know what your writing about.

I can tell you now that it has taken me years,  yes that's right years of failed blogs to finally get two blogs that are becoming popular.  I cant yet quit my fulltime job and I'm not making heaps of money with them, and that's ok with me.  Because I'm finally enjoying writing on my blogs and I think that's very important. Because it makes people come back.

I've always had a yearning to write and I have started to write so many stories, but I have never finished one of them.  Maybe one day I will finish the stories I have started.  So that's why when I discovered blogging I knew it was something I really wanted to do.

If you want to make money from your blog why not tried Google AdSense, its free and easy to use.  The way you make money with Google AdSense is by putting ads on your blog.  And I have made money from it, so I know it works.

Shareasale is another way I make money and I will put up a banner so you can click on it, and I will also put a link to it as well Join share a,

Can I just say some people are very lucky and make money fast with there blog.  Other time it takes time.  Hang in there.  If you really want it bad enough it will happen believe me.  I wouldn't be writing about it if it wasn't true.

Take care until next time.:-)xo

Today bargains are for Women and Children

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Hi Everyone,

Well finally I have some great bargains for the kids out there.  I think its really important to have great deals for everyone.:-)

I think it is so important to read to your kids and grandkids or if they can read get them books and sit down together and have them read to you.  You just cant bet quality time with your kids.  Believe me they grow up way to fast.  Epic has a wonderful collection of books at the moment and here are the links you will need.  So many books to choose from!!!  and Read all about Martin Luther King, Jr .
Why not go and buy some books and start reading together today:-)

Newchic is having a sale on makeup YES!!!! and waterproof trench coats for boys and girls.  And here is the links you will need.  Trench Coats there are 9 colours to choose from.  $10 Off for order over $70+ that's for your makeup.  With so much to choose from why not buy today.:-)

IVRose is having a sale on at the moment 80% off there top picks, and here is the link you will need New Top picks, Up to 80%  lets not for get the Free Shipping so shop now!!!!!!

Happy Shopping everyone, take care until next time.:-)


Tuesday, January 9, 2018

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I thought I would take a break from Have Your Say for a while, but it seems that absence really does make my blog grow fonder.

I didn't think people were that interested in my blog, turns out I was wrong.  And that makes me feel wonderful.  Thank you to those of you who kept on coming back.

I think this year I want to do something different.  Not that sure what yet, but you will just have to keep coming back to see what's new:-)

But first what would you like to hear more about Celebrities, Me and my crazy life, World events, I would like to hear from you.

Feedback is so very important to me, because I would like to hear what you think and feel. So please leave a comment below and I will get back to you soon:-)

Oh just before I go I will be sharing banners, so feel free to buy from them.  Take care until next time.:-)

Friday, October 27, 2017

For all the single ladies

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Hi Everyone,

This post is for all the singles beautiful ladies out there.

One of my favourite online shops is having a huge sale one at the moment and if you like vintage dresses like I do then this sale is for you.  Here is the link Shopping for the beautiful single ladies  
Let me tell you ladies there is so much to chose from that you wont be disappointed.

Don't forget to by my other favourite online store for some new bathers, trust me ladies you choose one of these bather and you wont be single for long.  Here is the link Bathers.

Happy shopping everyone until next time take care.:-)

Tuesday, October 24, 2017

Hats for men

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Hi Everyone,

With spring here and summer just around the corner, its time to get the hats out and on our head.  Sun smart is what its all about.  So for all the men out there have I got a great deal for you, Check out this link Hats for men.  With 50% off you cant go wrong.  As I always say there is something there for everyone.

Happy shopping guys;-)

Take care until next time.:-)